It is totally okay to be unapologetically myself even if i lose people. If i lose people and win myself, i win. At least i win myself.
Since i need to help and heal others, i need to keep my energy flowing, and to keep my energy flowing, i need to stay away from people who block my energy.
If i get too close to people who block my energy, i won’t be able to help and heal others, i won’t be able to help and heal myself. Also by making a distance, i am giving those people the opportunity to self reflect and see what is wrong and that way i am helping them, even though they don’t see it at first and get angry.
By staying away from people who block my energy, i am helping them to help themselves, and i am protecting myself so i can evolve, heal and thrive. It is not selfish, i am actually helping others too, by keeping my energy flow, i will upset one person by make many others happy, and help many others.
I upset one but make many others happy and change their lives. And that someone i upset, even if i get too close to them, not only will i not be able to help others, but also i will be validating this person’s wrong behaviour, he needs the distance and the hurt to self reflect.
I am actually helping that person, not hurting them, they just won’t be able to see it at first. That way my parents changed their behaviour with my sisters, hadn’t i gone loe contact and away from them, they wouldn’t have had the opportunity to self reflect and change. The couldn’t have saw that it was good for them that i did that to them, but it was.
This way i protected my sisters and healed my parents and protected myself.
Same thing for all my exes, they need to self reflect so they can heal themselves and change.
Happy Healing!